You will learn. Part 3

You will learn that it doesn't matter what you have reached,
But where you are going to.
But if you don't know where you are going to,
Anywhere will do.
You will learn that either you control your acts,
Or they shall control you.
And that to be flexible doesn't mean to be weak or not to have
personality,
Because it doesn't matter how delicate and fragile the situation
is,
There are always two sides.
You learn that heroes are those who did what was necessary to
be done,
Facing the consequences.
You learn that patience demands a lot of practice.



You discover that sometimes
The person who you most expect to be kicked by
when you fall,
Is one of the few who will help you to stand up.
You learn that maturity has more to do with the kinds of
experiences you had
And what you have learned from them,
Than how many birthdays you have celebrated.

You will learn that there are more from you parents inside you
than you thought.
You will learn that we shall never tell a child that dreams are silly,
Very few things are so humiliating,
And it would be a tragedy if she belived in it.

You will learn that when you are angry,
You have the right to be angry,
But this doesn't give you the right to be cruel.

You will discover that only because someone doesn't love you the
way you would like
her to,
It doesn't mean that this person doesn't love you the most
she can,
Because there are people who love us,
But just don't know how to show or live that.

Veronica A. Shoffstall 

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Aprenderás que no importa a dónde llegaste, sino a dónde te diriges y si no lo sabes, cualquier lugar sirve.
Aprenderás que si no controlas tus actos, ellos te controlarán y que ser flexible no significa ser débil o no tener personalidad, porque no importa cuán delicada y frágil sea una situación: siempre existen dos lados.
Aprenderás que héroes son las personas que hicieron lo que era necesario, enfrentando las consecuencias. Aprenderás que la paciencia requiere mucha práctica. Descubrirás que algunas veces, la persona que esperas que te patee cuando te caes, tal vez sea una de las pocas que te ayuden a levantarte.
Madurar tiene más que ver con lo que has aprendido de las experiencias, que con los años. Aprenderás que ha mucho más de tus padres en ti de lo que supones. Aprenderás que nunca se debe decir a un niño que sus sueños son tonterías, porque pocas cosas son las humillantes, y sería una tragedia si lo creyese, porque estás quitando la esperanza.
Aprenderás que, cuando sientes rabia, tienes derecho a tenerla, pero eso no te da derecho a ser cruel. Descubrirás que solo porque alguien no te ame de la forma que quieres, no significa que no te ame de veras, porque hay personas que nos aman, pero que no saben cómo demostrárnoslo.